Hello everybody it’s Wednesday again, time to focus on achieving your goals by discovering yourself.
# Validation of self; ,Why do many of us ignore ourselves? Why can’t we just be the stars we are without self condemnations, why are we so scared to look at the mirror and say nice things to the person we see? You know we always want others to validate us, the most important relationship you have is your relationship with yourself when are we really going to start paying more attention to ourselves and have that self interview.
Self validation is the best thing that can happen to you right now, it’s time to ask yourself what have I done, what are the things am allowing into my life, how many times do i use my silly excuses as an excape root to run away from my responsibilities. We don’t understand that our relationship with ourselves is ultimately reflected in our relationships with others, i keep saying you can’t give what you don’t have.
Now it’s time to ask yourself the big question, am i happy with what i do? Does this increase my self joy, am i fulfilled, the time to face the truth and reality is now, it’s good when other people validate us, everyone likes to hear `”Oh you are beautiful, you are doing well” but it’s time you start your day by telling yourself those words, be friends with yourself, .Today you need to be part of your own support system, stop criticizing yourself, you have been doing that for years. Tell yourself what you want to hear from others, when you get to hear it from them you are already motivated in your spirit it’s not strange to your system, now what pops inside you is just a reminder.
People just stay at one level all their lives, what actually keeps them there is low validation of their own thinking, Remember always only you can answer the questions about you judging your feelings, ask yourself what your mind needs, what your body needs, how far are you willing to go. Address yourself needs. Regardless of whatever you have done or where you are coming from, known that there is always that one time in everyone’s life where shame is felt, failures are experienced; ,.
One thing that has helped me validate myself tremendously was understanding my weakness as my growth. I have used criticism to do better jobs, I understand the power of my inner voice, I was able to accept myself for who I am and it gave me a chance to embrace my challenges as a blessing in disguise. Only a process of self-discovery can help you uncover your potentials and uniqueness.