Look at you! Wow; it is Funny how we offen think our happiness is out there. I for one thought I lost out in finding happiness , i always wanted to be happy. What’s life if you are not happy, happiness is everything, but you have to decide the path to finding it. The truth is we complicate things, we look for things in the wrong places. We offen forget to believe in something beautiful, something amazing is about to happen in our lives. We forget to trust ourselves a little bit more.
I always create a world of possibilities where I run to when the world becomes very unbecoming for me. In that world I am a whole new me, so I decided to bring it to realty. Let’s ask ourselves this question, what brings you happiness? Is it your job , your relationship, your car or your friends. What makes you truly happy? Some of us are even scared to be happy, we think when we are happy something comes to end it . I don’t blame you if you are like that, I used to be like that myself. I have deep doubts and fears and this affected my vibes definitely. I told myself why am I happier in a different world, why can’t I be happy every day and everytime. What is stopping me, really ask yourself, what is stopping you form shining. Why do we apologize for the things that makes us happy! It’s time to go deep and explore ourselves, just like I did.
Happiness is not out there it’s in you. When you being to understand that you start seeing your life differently. There is nothing to look for outside, it’s all inside of us it is around us. The way you see yourself, the way you love yourself and appreciate the fact that you have the chance to be great every day. This is where you Express that positive attitude and energy. Trust me there is magic inside us but we’re afarid to use it. A lot of things stopped me in the past but not anymore; I deserve to be happy, happy without any reason. Yes! You should try it. How can you be happy only when it’s Christmas, or a major holiday or celebration. I say no to that. Sometimes I get up and start dancing, i put down everything and start dancing, listen to a wonderful music that uplifts my soul and spirit. I take out time from the crazy news and find my own inspiration.
So what’s holding you back? Without realizing this some of us allow the behavior of others to destroy our peace,. Don’t do that, you are the only one holding yourself back, so you are accountable for your happiness. I remember my ex husband coming home one day and saw me crying, without asking me why I was crying, he said to me I hate to break your heart even more but happiness is your choice I can’t give that to you. Back then I didn’t understand, I cried even more, I wanted more, I thought he would at least ask me what the problem was, maybe give me a hug or something like that. Ugh; that never happened but I got the best advice that day. Yes! Happiness is my choice. There will always be good and bad days so how you want to handle it depends solely on you. Some of us depend on others to make us happy, like the old me always seeking approval from others. No stop doing that i told myself. No more emptiness, i don’t leave myself empty. I have so many reasons to be happy, money goes people say you can’t do without money, no you shouldn’t do without being happy. Don’t ignore the efforts you are putting everyday, you are doing great, but you have to see it from inside to appropriate it.
Face your fears, face it and be happy. You have to believe in yourself, I know you have heard these words over and over. But believing in yourself never gets old, you must believe to see everything completely coming to light. It’s time to make amends, redefine your goals and choices. Don’t stop being happy. Live in a world where your happiness is free, look forward to the life in front of you. What am I saying to you is enjoy your happiness leave the past in the past where it belongs. What is ahead of you is far more important than everything you have left behind you. Speak positivity into your existence, remember you will always get what you seek.
Let your plan be to be happy. You deserve happiness.